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Harsh start-up: the part of a fight that told researchers the most

Researchers filmed newlywed couples during a fifteen-minute fight, then waited six years to see who divorced. Then they went back to the films. They wanted to know which part told them the most.

  1. 1 The next evening, the pile is back. You are tired, and the first words come out before you think: "You never do the dishes!" Miva's face closes.You never dothe dishes!Mivayou

    The next evening, the pile is back. You are tired, and the first words come out before you think: "You never do the dishes!" Miva's face closes.

  2. 2 Researchers in Seattle filmed 124 newlywed couples during a 15-minute fight, then followed them for six years. They cut each fight into five parts of three minutes, and looked at the first part alone.3 min3 min3 min3 min3 min15 minutes

    Researchers in Seattle filmed 124 newlywed couples during a 15-minute fight, then followed them for six years. They cut each fight into five parts of three minutes, and looked at the first part alone.

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